How to Define Love


Love is one of the most complicated emotions in our lives. It’s something we hear about all the time and yet it’s so hard to describe. Love is different for every person and in every situation. It can’t be summed up in a few words, and that’s what makes it so magical.

Whether it’s romantic or platonic, when you love someone you feel a connection with them that’s beyond just liking them. It’s more than just a feeling of affection, it’s about caring for their needs and putting their happiness before your own. Love is an emotional journey that takes time and patience. But it can be so rewarding when you find the right person.

The idea of love has been a favored topic of philosophers, poets, and writers for generations. It’s also been a subject of great debate. Many people argue that it is impossible to define because it varies so much from person to person. Others disagree and say that love is a combination of emotions, feelings, and actions.

There is surely something to be said for this view, which sees love as both an appraisal of antecedent value and a kind of bestowal. And yet, as we will see, accounts that understand love only in terms of appraisal may miss something.

This is because they neglect the way that people regulate their emotions. Using techniques like situation selection (avoiding or seeking out situations based on how they make you feel), expression suppression, and cognitive reappraisal, it is possible to control the intensity of your feelings.