What Makes Love Last?

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Love is a complex feeling that encompasses a variety of emotions and behaviors. It is a combination of deep affection and attachment, and it often involves a mix of altruistic and narcissistic elements. Many people are in awe of long-lasting relationships they see, which appear to have strong love. But what is this love that allows these couples to withstand the test of time? In this article, we will explore what makes love last, and how it is exhibited in daily life.

We will also discuss what happens on a neurological level when people fall in love and experience different phases of the emotion. Recent advances in neuroscience have shed light on the nature of human love. Brain scans reveal that the areas of the brain associated with reward and pleasure are activated during the lust and attraction phases of love. In addition, the chemical hormones dopamine and adrenaline are released during this stage. As a result, the cheeks become flushed and the palms begin to sweat. Once the initial lust and attraction fades, the next phase of love is characterized by increased levels of oxytocin (the cuddle hormone). This leads to a sense of closeness and security. In this phase, lovers may begin making commitments and long-term plans for their relationship.

The neuropeptide oxytocin has played a key role in the evolution of mammalian social behavior. It is released during birth and enables the mammalian offspring to bond with their mother. Oxytocin is also responsible for the “hugging” and “nurturing” behaviours that are characteristic of parental love.